Should I quit my job to be with my child?

Are you about to plan for a child? Are you working and worry on how would you manage your kid and work? Are you feeling guilty because you leave your child and go to work? Are you the one who really looking for an answer on whether to work or quit?

We all are in dilemma and this situation is faced by most of the women who doesn't have a family support And weighing the pros and cons women decide and devise an answer.Just for e.g. if there is a financial obligation , no matter how much your heart bleeds, you still need to continue your job leaving your child with a home maid or day care. Or if you one really determined to continue your work, you would make sure to be on board.

Just a year back, I was in the same situation and I didn't knew what needs to be done. There were well wishers advising me "to quit" and "not to quit". We hired a maid , took  couple of months work from home, my mother came to settle down things. Read almost all websites and journals to seek an answer but all in vain. I guess I tried my level best to stay close to my kid and still working.But, somehow it wasn't happening.

 I used to go to work with a heavy heart and always used to miss my kid. Or if I had been working from home, just sitting in adjacent room and listening to your kid crying and howling , you need to be stone-hearted to get over it. I was really looking for an answer, and I sat the other day during my regular Reiki pratice I asked Reiki to provide me with a solution and balance things as it was pretty much chaotic. The answer I got was - Go With The Flow!!

And I decided to QUIT!!

As I was in my Reiki session, my heart only portraited me as a mother and so I had an answer.

While leaving your child does your heart beats faster than normal? Are you really anxious on how your kid would be in day care/ with maid?  Well, thousands of parenting websites and journals would say , that's natural. Then why do I need to tread in opposite direction?  We are so much used to sail in opposite direction that we never consciously know about it.

Our body at each and every point signals us, for anything wrong or problematic issues, but we are so engrossed in "maya[Magic]" and luxuries of life that we hardly notice them. Just for eg : if your shoulder is paining[unless its a muscular pain] did you ever thought "its because you are taking to too much responsibilities and it could go away once you delegate some". The very common "headache" is also a signal that your mind needs rest, but we would take a painkiller and then get busy with our laptops for Facebook or on our smart phone midnight to check whatsapp message. You just need REST!

Motherhood is a very special thing and there is a reason why it has been gifted to women. We should respect it. Separation Anxiety in kids actually leads to more stress, anger and frustration. Children are the purest soul and all they need is lots of love and love. You may have seen or heard in news kids [ current generation] getting angry and frustrated easily and also they are low in confidence and many kids actually go into depression. One of the reason is separation  from the loved ones.

No matter what, how good your day care is or how educated your home maid is ,the love and affection showered by a mother is incomparable. And its child birthright to get it. Just as mother's milk is like "amrit[sacred nectar]" to your little angel and so is your love and care.

Mamma... Please be with me always :)

The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Energy Accumulation Meter

Have any of us fathomed the thought that how much negative energy we accumulate all through out the day. This accumulation which is of years than take the form of sickness or fears, anger and depression, which when treated by chemicals just work on physical layer which suppress pain just at physical level.

So lets take a look at our one day routine for an adult , say of age 28 . We'll assign +10 for each positive contribution and -10 for each negative contribution.

Wake up 

Happy and delighted to start your day [+10]
Ohh no, weekend is still away [-10]

Kick Start your day

Walk/Yoga/Gym/A hug and a kiss to your spouse [+10]
Newspaper - murder,rape,market crash [-10]

Breakfast

Wow, a healthy break fast with all your family members [+10]
No time. Meeting in next 20 mins. [-10]

Parking lot/Public Transport/Office Cab

Thankful to lord for providing the luxury of car/Thankfully bus is here /Thankful for getting the luxury of office cab [+10]
Who the hell has parked this vehicle in front of mine/This bus always has to come late/This cab is really the worst service [-10]

On Your way to Office 

Listening to music relaxed and calm [+10]
Oh damn, again my boss would scold me [-10]

On Reaching Office 

Meeting and greeting people with a smile [+10]
I don't want to see his face. Too much attitude [-10]

In a meeting for the arguments

I agree that we can disagree on this point and definitely we can try it out if that works [+10]
How dare you. I have decided and this is final [-10]

During Tea-Break [while talking about company,team and in general about work]

I'm really happy and grateful to work here [+10]
What a crap work I have to do, and this company is for sure going to be bankrupt [-10]

During work review by you of your team member

You have done quite good and really thankful for your efforts, but I feel we can add couple of more things[+10]
How many years of experience you have , is this a deliverable. [-10]

During your work review by your boss

I'm thankful for your feedback. will update and get back to you soon[+10]
He doesn't knows anything [in his heart] [-10]

On your returning journey from work to home

Wow, completed this much . thankful for such a nice day [+10]
What a tiring day. I'm bored of this office and work [-10]

On reaching home

A big hug to your spouse/child or a big smile to your parents [+10]
Started scolding your child or your maid [-10]

Your free time

family time/your hobby/walk [+10]
Watching TV aimlessly in a bad mood [-10]

Dinner Time

Wow, a healthy and light dinner with all your family members [+10]
Eating while watching TV. [-10]

Sleep Time

thankful for such a nice and calm day. Looking forward for another one [+10]
What a tiring and exhausted day it was.[-10]


So whats the score you got?



The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

No Regret

Often it happens, we hurt our close ones,knowingly or unknowingly and when we realize we feel bad/guilty about it. Specifically "Women" in that matter. [I dont mean to say that martians dont feel bad, but women in general are more affected is what I feel].

DON'T REGRET!! Ask for forgiveness and also forgive others. Don't let the seed of anger,frustration,guilt be implanted in you. Just Let it GO....

You wake up early morning get ready on time and as you come to parking and unlock your car you realize you are having flat Tyre, you get late for office, miss the meeting and eventually boss scolds you , you are already annoyed and when your wife or team member ask for assistance - you simply blow out. For the same scenario if you are not that senior in office and unmarried, you just let that annoyance remain within you, you simply go back to work with may be an intention - I need to find a new job or I'll see him!!

In both these scenario you are implanting a seed of anger [ negative energy] within you, which will affect you may be causing physical pain or mental stress and overall influencing your spiritual being.

If you read the above scenario again, you would see nobody planned for this. right? Did you already knew [even if you had, was there a way you could have avoided it] that you would be scolded in office today and you would let that frustration passed out to your wife? No .right? So then why feel guilty about it? But the best part is your "REALIZATION" that you hurt someone, that it self is a big thing and many ignorant never ever feel that.

Once you "REALIZED" it, if possible say sorry or else ask Reiki for forgiveness [you need to be true with your intentions] and also forgive your boss as he scolded you [ may be even he had a bad day ;)]
Don't look back again and regret!! It was meant to be that way. Just MOVE ON... 

The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Is Reiki Working?

Many of my student had asked me this question, Its not working for me somehow, or How do I know reiki is working?

I don't have a definite answer, trust me as we are so much out of touch of our prana and mind, that we always have a doubt on our instincts and behavior.We mostly are slaves of our minds, or our doubts and start applying logical thinking to any solution we see.

So above statement holds good for Reiki as well, its an energy vibrating at "x" frequency, is it working on me? How do you know? Unless I see some positive results, or some miracle happening. That's not the only sign of its working.

Reiki works at a very deeper level, which to experience also we need to practice it for years and actually feel its vibration, now I don't mean that people who believe or feel some vibration, or heat, or itchiness is all fake during reiki practice but what I mean to say is you really need exhaustive practice to actually feel it at physical level.

If a person is practicing Reiki or taking healing sessions, Reiki is Flowing  for sure, but would that person feel it depends [ on following] and may vary from one individual to another:

• Mental State
• Receptivity
• Nature of his work
• Past Seeds 
• Practice Session

If the above points are in good shape, and still person has doubt, consider following :

• Was the Attunement proper? If you have a doubt, you can ask your teacher to attune you again or may be you can look for new teacher as well.
• Be Patient
• Trust, Trust and Trust yourself. Trust that the Reiki is flowing.
• Practice it positively, daily
• Jot down your feelings during the reiki practice session and if possible analyse them

And for sure it would pay off :)

The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Doubt Bigger Than FAITH

It was during my Reiki classes that I asked - Maa, how can you be sure that it can be done? And she replied to me, when your FAITH is bigger than your doubt, all executions are possible.

This statement was like golden words for me.

How many times we ourselves doubt our own existence?

I'm fat!!
I'm not goodlooking!!
I may not clear my exams!
My promotion is due, but dont see any possibilities
I'm suffering from this ailment or the other
And the list can go on and on...

Then, why should we blame or feel bad about it? We believe these things and so we receive back the same. Shouldn't we believe in ourselves more than anybody else. Nobody can know your potential unless you believe it yourself..so lets show that to world that I believe in myself and can do anything and achieve all that I desire and deserve.

Remember - The Power is Within YOU!


The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Mornings - The Beauty Of It!

Mornings are just so powerful and spiritual.

Since ancient time we are advised to get up early and get into action, but with the modern age and lifestyle we have sort of being a night person. Hooking to tv, internet, phone or late night calls.

How you start any task does say much about how it would be executed and what would be the end results. Many people start with morning newspaper, and they are all filled with negative thoughts so our mind is at the start of the day disturbed leading to further frustration in case the same person encounters any other problem during the day.

How about starting the day at calm pace and with relaxed thoughts. Again there are many ways of doing so...

• Reading a spiritual article/book
• Listening to bhajans
• Yoga
• Meditation
• Prayer
• Walk

A human mind is just a wired connection which takes input and produces output , so how should be the input? The clean and clear mind is much more capable of inventing..discovering...exploring infinite possibilities which a disturbed mind is not.

Start your note with a fresh note - soak in the energy mornings give you...pure, plain,true,bright,energized,simple.... charge yourself and see the results!!

The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

What Has Life Taught You?

We are so busy with our daily routine and luxuries surrounding us that hardly we have ever thought if the life which we are enjoying had made us a different person or anything which we have learnt from it?

Any lesson to be shared?

Just another thought the other day - and then I really thought about it if any lessons I have learnt apart from what delivered by others?

There are millons of quotes shared by people but anything which is just delivered by you?

If you think you are special - the reason for being special has to be a lesson which life taught you. Coz everybody is special and for everybody life has something special waiting to be explored.

My lesson of life - Relationship are the treasure of life and it can really be ruined by your ego , anger ,stubbornness and arrogance.

What has life taught you?


The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Thoughts Make Your Life

Thoughts are what make your life. Its a summation of your thoughts which drives you,motivates you.

Probably the most vital lesson we can learn in life is the importance of what we think. Some say that if they knew what you think, they would know what you are. Indeed our thoughts make us what we are. If we think failure we will fail. If we think of lack and worry we will have lack and worry. If we think happy thoughts we will be happy.

Thoughts are things and they affect other things, other very real and material things that we generally consider solid and stable. Our modern world is a virtual reality. You only have to walk in a modern city to see this. Everywhere you turn from the concrete underfoot to the skyscrapers, cars, mobile phones, chairs, clothing, bikes and so on. All of these things were first and foremost a thought.

The great work of art,literature,architecture,intelligence everything was initally a THOUGHT!!But yes, even the act of terrorism,violence, fights are also some thoughts!!

So can we stop thinking ? Nopes, the only thing is we need to process of what to think. The RIGHT THINKING, which leads toa right direction and then right results.


The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Angel Of The Day - Harmony

The Angel Of Harmony showered its blessings today. I need to be harmony... to be together, the feeling of enjoying with others and just not solitude. The Feeling of being Alive ... The feeling of making others smile ... The feeling of being one of them ...

The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Are You Looking For Answers??

 The answer lies with the unconscious - that deep level of memory and awareness that resides within each of us, but outside our everyday experience. Even though we ignore the action of the unconscious most of the time, it profoundly affects everything we do.
We may never know the full range and power of the unconscious, but there are ways to explore its landscape. Many techniques have been developed for this purpose - psychotherapy, dream interpretation, visualization and meditation. The tarot is another such tool.

Meaning is a truly mysterious quality that arises at the juncture of inner and outer realities. There is a message in everything...trees, songs, even trash...but only when we are open to perceiving it. The tarot cards convey many messages because of the richness of their images and connections. More importantly, tarot readings communicate meaning because we bring to them our sincere desire to discover deeper truths about our lives. By seeking meaning in this way, we honor its reality and give it a chance to be revealed.

Each of us has an Inner Guide that serves as a fountain of meaning for us. Your Inner Guide is always with you because it is a part of you. You can't destroy this connection, but you can ignore it. When you reach for your tarot deck, you signal to your Inner Guide that you are open to its wisdom. This simple act of faith allows you to become aware of the guidance that was always there for you.

We are meant by nature to rely on the wisdom of our Inner Guide, but somehow we have forgotten how to access it. We trust our conscious minds instead, and forget to look deeper. Our conscious minds are clever, but unfortunately, they just don't have the full awareness we need to make appropriate choices day by day.

The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Reiki Does Heals!

Reiki ... does heals! Well, what it can heal? Almost everything!

Every pain you feel is in your brain! With Reiki - the positive healing , you build the inner strength first to fight that pain and then you yourself heal it! And then there is No Pain!

If You...

•     have health problems,
•     feel that You are in a difficult situation,... a dilemma
•     have problems with yourself or with other people, your BOSS, neighbour, husband, Mother in Law
•     have problems at work or with any other aspect of life,
•     Or you want to seek whats within you?

You can ! You can find methods to improve its quality, You want to explore, awaken and activate your inner abilities, You want to learn about yourself and live in harmony with yourself and your surroundings, then allow yourself to believe that all of that is possible,



Its as simple as GOING with the FLOW!

and I offer You my help to discover that flow

I take the liberty of offering You my help, because I believe, that this is why we are here - to help each other along the Path of Life thats what make us HUMAN. 

The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Tarot Card Reading

Tarot Reading is not just about predictions.The fascinating cards can not only foretell your future but can also provide remedies for problems relating to your personal and professional life. It can also aid in the spiritual development of a person.They can be used for healing, counseling, spiritual development and other therapeutic purposes.

Well, its fascinating as how a bunch of cards know about you. But yes they know you whats in your mind, what you need, how life would turn for you! They know!

They are just "To Help You". 


Feel that Power.... 


The Power Is Within YOU!
Samiksha

Life Changes!

After my reiki classes and attenuation, I was a different person.

Less irritation,less frustration, more energy.! I used to forgive others (if any) the anger within me was getting transformed into positive energy.

On practising Reiki daily , my intituion went strong, my professional life was back to normal and personal was all filled with happiness.

Its not an overnight thing, one need to be patient and Reiki gives you the power to cultivate Patience and provide positive energy to set your decisions right.

The Power is Within YOU!
Samiksha

How I got into it?

How and when the inclination happened I don't know?
It was just another day , my life was not so cheerful as it used to be. The struggle in office and then pressure for marrige. It was affecting me. I used to medidate but somehow things didn't worked out.

I always feel that if you are have to suffer you would! The amount of pain you need to bear you are entitled to would always be there , its your wish How you handle it? Just like another day ... or cribbing... irritating...and demotivating yourself more.

My friend searched for some Tarot Card readers in pune and asked me to call them and visit them . May be that helps.I called one of them... It was ringing and suddenly I disconnected it, thinking let me make up my mind before going . Should I really go there? No I don't neeed. I'm strong enough!I came back to my desk and just after two minutes my phone rang. It was the last number I dialed in. I just picked up and said - yeah I called up and then somehow it got disconnected. She asked me - if you are looking for Tarot Reading? I told her - yes indeed. And she booked an appointment for me.
The other day I went to her place, the place didnt at all made me feel good. I was more tensed, how could I have come here. But then when we spoke... the tension eased out.

Sometime talking to stranger is more relaxing than with your best friend

She read my cards and then after the discussion she asked me to learn reiki! It would help you!
That was a suggestion and I was totally influenced by it. And there I was at the door of enlightenment!

The Power is Within YOU
Samiksha